What can you talk about with me?

Yes. I work to a strict code of personal and professional ethics. I studied with the pioneer of sex coaching, Dr Patti Britton, and her university, Sex Coach U, the only school of sexuality to be pre-approved for being registered with the World Association of Sex Coaches (WASC).

I treat everyone's information with the greatest respect.

No.

Whilst I love women and have a big bee in my bonnet about empowering women with pleasure, I also work with men and all flavours in-between.

I appreciate that approaching a professional sex coach is a bold thing to do but please don’t book a session with me after a skinful of Dutch courage and have bookers remorse in the cold / sober light of day.

Prior to every single coaching session, I undertake an intense amount of work. This is why on booking, I will always ask for an indication of the concerns that you want to speak with me about.

For this reason, I do not offer refunds and I urge you to consider carefully before committing to booking a session with me.

I work on a talking-only basis and primarily, my one-to-one coaching sessions are conducted online. Occasionally, I work in-person with a client with whom I have already formed a coaching relationship. These sessions are held in or close to Nottingham.

Whilst there are healing modalities during which the professional bodyworker uses their own body to touch or be touched by a client, this is not the way I work.

Should you wish to work in this way, I highly recommend that you seek a regulated professional person. A good place to start would be with the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers ACSB

No.

As with the question pertaining to nakedness, I will focus primarily on our establishing a trusting relationship. On-Zoom wanking will not be your standard coaching session with me, but we WILL talk about your masturbation patterns, routines, and techniques. In the rare circumstance that I think this might be beneficial, it will be discussed and consensually agreed upon, and a different package will be offered to you.

I will always work for the benefit of you, my client, and will always respect my own code of ethics and boundaries, so I WILL terminate any session if I believe this to be happening without my consent. K?

During initial sessions, no.

For the success of our coaching relationship and the progression of your goals, I want to make sure I understand your concerns completely before nakedness.

For some clients, being observed in the buff will be extremely liberating and healing, and for some, hugely challenging. I want to make sure I create a safe enough space for this to happen.

Consent works all ways in this party, baby!

(Just for clarity, I will never be naked during my coaching sessions.)

Discovery calls are recorded.

This is so that I can focus completely on what you are telling me without having to take notes. Coaching sessions may be recorded for the same reason if it is your preference for me not to note-take during our session.

Recordings are stored securely and are never shared.

The concerns that have brought you to the point of considering working with a sex coach have not happened overnight so it’s unreasonable to expect they’ll be sorted with one coaching session, this is why I offer a special offer of coaching sessions to thank you for your commitment to this process.

But let’s be clear, I do not want you to put yourself under any financial strain - you should only commit to working with me if it is comfortably within your reach.

All Discovery Calls are conducted online with your camera switched on, so find somewhere that you will be able to speak openly and comfortably.

In-person sessions are conducted from a therapy room in West Bridgford, with excellent transport links to Nottingham City Centre. 

There is limited on-street parking but it is accessible with the number 11 bus from the City Centre, a 10minute walk from Trent Bridge and a 15minute walk from Central Avenue in West Bridgford. There is a bike rack.

Absolutely. I have many clients who speak to me from their car because they know they can speak openly and privately.

NB if you are speaking from your car, you must make sure you are parked. If you are driving or unsafe, I will terminate the call.