You've spent years taking care of everyone else.
When did you stop feeling like you?
I help midlife women rediscover their desire, reconnect with their bodies, and feel unapologetically sexy again - without the awkwardness or shame.
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Courtesan Energy: Seduce Yourself First
Does this sound familiar?
These are the things women whisper to me in our conversations...
How many apply to you?
I love my partner, but I just don't want to be touched.
You used to crave intimacy. Now the thought of sex feels like another item on your endless to-do list. You've started avoiding bedtime, or pretending to be asleep. The guilt is eating you up.
I don't recognise my body anymore.
The woman in the mirror doesn't match how you feel inside. Perimenopause, motherhood, life - your body has changed, and with it, your confidence has crumbled.
I've never had an orgasm (or it's been years).
You've faked it for so long, you're not sure you'd know what real pleasure feels like. Maybe you've given up entirely. You wonder if there's something wrong with you.
We've just... stopped.
Your relationship has become roommates with a joint bank account. The spark died somewhere between the kids, the careers, and the exhaustion.
I don't know what I want anymore.
You've spent so long putting everyone else first that you've lost touch with your own desires - in bed and in life. When someone asks what YOU want, your mind goes blank.
I'm terrified to talk about this.
The shame stops you from even admitting there's a problem. Your friends seem to have it figured out. You feel so alone in this.
The Courtesan Collective
Courtesan energy is the art of being fully, unapologetically yourself - educated, self-possessed and lit up from the inside. The Collective is where we practise it together.
A monthly online community and sensual sisterhood for brilliant women ready to reclaim their radiance and power.
Join the waitlist for early access to become a Founding 15 member at an exclusive, life-long rate of £15/month*.
Launching in September 2026. More info
This offer will be capped to 15 women, and first refusal will go to those on the waitlist.
*(standard pricing will be higher)
Bring this energy to your stage
I speak and facilitate at festivals, retreats, conferences and wellbeing days, bringing colour, confidence and a holistic, science-backed approach to women's embodiment, pleasure and self-possession.
After 10+ years in the wellbeing industry, I create rooms where women leave braver, lighter and a little bit sparkly.
"Lee-ann brought a fantastic energy to our Women's Networking event and quickly created an atmosphere where people felt comfortable sharing their experiences and insights. The session was engaging, thought-provoking and highly interactive... I'd have no hesitation in recommending Lee-ann to other event organisers looking for a speaker who can connect with an audience, inspire confidence and create a genuinely positive impact."
I'm Lee-ann - your slightly inappropriate fairy godmother
"I blend science, softness, and sparkle to help women feel strong, sexy, and fully alive."
I get it. Talking about sex with a stranger sounds mortifying. That's exactly why I do what I do, because you deserve a space where nothing is off-limits, nothing is shameful, and you're never judged.
Part yoga teacher, part slightly inappropriate fairy godmother, I use science, softness, and sparkle to help you reconnect with your body, your confidence, and your desire.
I'm also a burlesque performer, so I don't just talk about reclaiming your body - I've done it under stage lights.
As a mum, a wife, and a woman navigating perimenopause myself, I know how easy it is to put yourself last. My job is to help you find your way back to YOU.
Where you want to be
This isn't about 'fixing' you. It's about peeling back the layers of exhaustion, shame, and disconnection to find the vibrant woman who's been there all along.
Where You Are Now
- Dreading intimacy and making excuses
- Feeling invisible and disconnected from your body
- Carrying guilt about your low desire
- Lost touch with what brings you pleasure
- Struggling in silence, feeling alone
Where You'll Be
- Initiating intimacy on YOUR terms
- Feeling confident and sexy in your skin
- Embracing your desires without shame
- Discovering what pleasure means to YOU
- Feeling fully alive in your relationship
Real women, real transformations
"Lee-ann put me at ease and the conversation came easily. I felt I could open up to her about my personal thoughts and trust her with my most private thoughts and desires. Lee-ann is amazing."
"Lee-ann is extremely easy to talk with and certainly puts you at ease very quickly. I did not find any issue difficult to talk through with her, or feel uncomfortable in my choice of words. Her replies were direct, without judgement and helpful."
"Thank you so much. I thought it was brilliant. You were great and I honestly felt comfortable talking with you, which is a credit to how you deal with people. I also feel excited about what the future has in store, hopefully making a stronger happier marriage and also some fun sex again!!"
"She brings a really friendly, powerful and inspirational energy to the room. She covers topics which can turn cheeks a bit pink, but she does it in such an open and safe way that by the end everyone is getting involved!"
Have we worked together, or have you attended one of my events?
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